When two is not enough – How threesome works for some people

A threesome has always been seen as something perverse, but in recent years it has become something quite common, perhaps even standard in the UK. Journalist and writer Diana Appleyard spoke with two women and a man from Cardiff who regularly enjoy threesome, and who revealed some intimate details.

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How it began

Kashia Wilkinson (28) is single, lives alone near Cardiff and works as a receptionist at a casino. “I started practicing threesome a year and a half ago with Layla and Dan, and we enjoy it so much that we’re even going on holiday together this summer. We’re having sex once or twice a month and we’re always looking forward to it. Layla and Dan are in an open relationship, and Dan has been my friend for many years”. Kashia explained how it all began: “Dan introduced me to Layla who I’ve been attracted to immediately, although I have never been intimate with a woman before. One thing led to another and we ended up at my house with champagne in bed. I was not embarrassed, actually, everything seemed very natural”.

How it works

Dan Gregory, age 35, lives in Cardiff and owns a beauty salon. He says: “I think I’m very lucky. I have a beautiful, sexy girl Layla and Kashia is my “friend with benefits”. According to him, Dan was the one who was “pulling the strings”, but mainly kept to the side and enjoyed watching Layla and Kashia kissing. Finally, he joined them and Kashia says that was exciting for both rough masculine and gentle female touch at the same time. “Most of the night we made love, and then about a month later Layla called me again so we began to see each other more often. I’ve never slept with any other woman except Layla and I can’t imagine having threesome with anyone else but them. This creates a special connection which I can’t explain, you really have to trust each other”. For now, neither one of them feel any guilt – moreover, Layla and Dan claim that their relationship is now even stronger.

Three is definitely enough

The third “member” is Layla Edwardson (32), Dan’s girlfriend who works in the office and has two children with her ex-husband. Dan introduced her to Kashia who he have known for years. “My sex life with Dan was already fantastic – he looks great, he’s muscular and has a lot of energy. We have a very active sex life, and I’ve slept with women before”. Layla is aware that many people think of their relationship as strange, to say the least, but for them it’s quite natural and they all get along great. “Kashia and I both love fashion, so we go shopping together and we’re especially crazy about sexy underwear. There’s no jealousy in this relationship, everything’s perfect, but it would be strange if someone else joined in. I can’t imagine having group sex, this is something special only between the three of us”, says Layla.

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